Who is Eternity?

Mx. Eternity Philops (They / them).
Black. Queer. Conscious. Free.
Creative Arts & Wellness Professional.

Literary Writer.
Art+Tech Teacher.
Fine Art Photographer.
Yoga Wellness Educator.
Peer Support Specialist.
Liberation Life Coach.

Greetings and welcome! I am Eternity Philops, a non-binary AfriQueer creative arts and wellness professional of the southeastern USA. The bearer of many titles and talents, I've channeled my passions into becoming a professional solopreneur of numerous soul-driven endeavors. Under the umbrella of Eternity Enterprises, LLC I independently operate: Soul Ink Press (2008), my indie publishing imprint; Soul Art Photography (2009), my portrait photography business; Soul Liberation Wellness (2018), my yoga education company; and Kamili Yoga® (2020), my Africentric yoga system that I developed. Each of these enterprises represent my commitment to work that is centered in creative artistry and wholistic wellness, and centered on marginalized Black, POC, and queer/trans communities.

What is
The House of Eternity?

Reminiscent of both Black queer ballroom culture and ancient Kemetic spirituality, The House of Eternity is a safe(r) space virtual home for Black queer creatives to grow and develop their craft in a supportive, safe community. folx like me who want to build relationships with Black queer folx like them. The House of Eternity is about bringing together those who seek kinship connections; it's a cultivated community for fellow open-minded and kind-hearted folx to make new friends and discover chosen family.

The House of Eternity is ideal for serious Black Queer Creatives who value:

1. An exclusive virtual environment free from toxicity and trolling
2. Peer support for navigating challenges unique to Black queer creatives
3. Connection and collaboration with other artists and creative professionals
4. Engaging in body doubling, parallel play, and community building activities 
5. Skill sharing to exchange knowledge and learn from each other’s expertise
6. Constructive feedback from respected and respectful peers on art pieces
7. Developing new techniques and expanding to other expressive mediums
8. Exploring and ethically integrating new AI and VR creative technologies
9. Improving professional work practices and business management skills
10. Understanding copyright laws and intellectual property rights
11. Having fun with art by creating first and foremost for Self

As House host and leader of this Black queer space of cosmically conscious and eclectic beings, it is both my joy and my job to care for the people living under my roof. To check on them and assess ways I can provide support. To help them grow as they press on in this journey we call life.

It will be an honor to have you join my house.

House Offerings & Benefits

• Monthly Affirmation Art Projects to enhance personal wellness through soulful creativity.
• Themed Common Areas such as the Leisure Lounge, Writers Roundtable, and Artists Gallery for day-to-day socializing through newsfeed posts and chat rooms.
• House Gatherings full of connection-building opportunities to hang out with housemates, spend time in community, and cultivate new friendships.  
  • Creative Coworking
    For body doubling and parallel play / productivity.
    Every Monday thru Friday: 12:00pm - 2:30pm, ET
  • Sunday Safe(r) Space
    Compassionate peer support to relax, relate, and release.
    1st and 3rd Sundays: 3:30pm - 5:30pm, ET
  • Wednesday Write & Read 
    Catch up on a book or literary project.
    Every Wednesday: 8:30pm - 10:30pm, ET
  • Casual Fridays
    Chit chat. Play games. Watch stuff. Whatever.
    Every Friday: 8:30pm - 11:30pm, ET
• Private Club Spaces for special interests and shared identities like Meta Quest Meetups and Trans Folx Chill, with more added upon request.
• Curated Class Rooms for 3rd party lessons focusing on topics such as art techniques, personal development, and wholistic wellness.
• Discount Pricing on 1:1 virtual sessions with Eternity for peer support space, yoga wellness education, and liberation life coaching.
• No Sponsored Ads, Spam, or Scams to interrupt your experience by trying to sell you stuff, clogging your inbox, or sending unsolicited texts.
• Free Android and iOS apps to stay connected to content through easy and convenient mobile access.
  
  

Host Background & Qualifications

I've always been a caretaker.
More specifically, I've always been a community caretaker. 

I grew up the eldest of five siblings, who I helped raise starting when I was just 9-years-old. In university I was a Community Advisor in campus dorms for most of my college years. I double majored in psychology and sociology to learn about how people think and operate, and that knowledge eventually led me to become a wellness professional specializing in peer support, yoga education, and life coaching. I thrive in bringing strangers together to create a new collective; I bask in the joy of watching new relationships take root and flourish over time. 

Many people love the idea of being in an active online community, but they often fizzle out without consistent leadership to guide participation. Joining The House of Eternity is to trust that you'll enjoy being in a dynamic and lively space that is maintained with passion and purpose by an enthusiastic and engaged host.

Bachelors of Arts
Psychology & Sociology,
UNC-Greensboro

Post-Baccalaureate Certificate
Women & Gender Studies,
UNC-Charlotte

Certified Life / Relationship / Spiritual Coach,
World Coach Institute

Certified Hatha Yoga Instructor
Certified Kemetic Yoga® Instructor
Certified Yoga for 12-Step Recovery Leader

Women’s Entrepreneurial Certificate,
Cornell University

Peer Support Specialist,
NC-Trained

House Agreements

The House Agreements govern all members, and are subject to change and evolve as the community itself changes and evolves. Breaking the agreements can result in being removed and banned from the House.

• We agree to NOT BE TRASH.

We do not tolerate trans-hate, queerphobia, fatphobia, body shaming, colorism, sexism, gender bias, TERFness, "fauxteps", religious bigotry, cultural prejudice, harassment, inappropriate messages, or any other form of oppression. 

Violating this will get you banned quick, so don't phukk around and find out.

• We agree to BE A SAFE(R) SPACE.

We can't guarantee that feelings won't be hurt, remarks won't be offensive, or that views won't be ignorant. But what we CAN do is promise to do our best to speak and act in humility, compassion, respect, and kindness. A safe(r) space is one where we constantly strive to be better both individually and communally. Misunderstandings and disagreements will happen. What's important is that we navigate conflicts with an energy of non-violence speech and gentle dialogue.  

Be slow to anger, quick to apologize, and open to correction. Remember that when you're speaking to someone, you're speaking to a part of your Self, for we are all connected. 

• We agree to BE MATURE ADULTS.

We're not going to like everybody in here. And that's okay. What's NOT okay is being rude and aggressive to folks you're not feeling or have a negative history with. Do what you have to do to protect your peace, but don't be ugly about it. 

And if there's someone in the group you have serious concerns about, please DM me (Eternity) and we can discuss it confidentially.

• We agree to HONOR ALL PRONOUNS.

We must all strive to use the proper pronouns for ALL community members. If you mess up, simply apologize, correct yourself, and do better next time. Also help others use the correct pronouns when necessary.

• We agree to CHECK OUR PRIVILEGE.

This social group is open to people of any ethnicity, culture, sexuality, gender, etc. But keep in mind that intersectionality exists, and that we each have a multitude of identities and varying layers of privilege. If someone calls you in on something, listen to what they have to say and grow from it.

Don't just treat people how you want to be treated, treat people how THEY want to be treated. 

Frequently Asked Questions

Who can join The House of Eternity?

Membership is exclusively for Black queer folx. Your identity must be confirmed in order to be approved.

To be in alignment with the energy, keep in mind that in addition to being Black and queer, Eternity is spiritual, intellectual, neurodivergent, polyamorous, a creative, an artist, a yogi, a writer, an entrepreneur, an AI enthusiast, a former Christian, an NC southerner, and so on . . . so similarly diverse types of people can be expected. This can give you an idea of the kind of vibe you may experience.

Please note that if "queer" is an offensive term for you, or is not a part of your everyday lived identity, this is NOT the space for you even if you are les/bi/gay or same-gender-loving. "Queer" is the operative word in this house!

Is there an application to join?

Yes! You must answer 5 screening questions to apply for membership. When you get to the questions screen, scroll downward to access all 5 questions. If not, the "submit" button will not highlight until all questions have answers.

You will receive an email once your application is reviewed. If approved, you'll need to confirm your membership, so keep an eye on your emails!

What tech and apps are used for the virtual live gatherings?

We use the following services:

- Zoom (free, requires app download)
- Free Conference Call (free, requires app download)
- VR worlds (Meta Quest 2 or 3 recommended)
- Mighty Networks (it's like Facebook, Discord, and Meetup had a baby)

Most of our gatherings can be attended using a PC, laptop, or mobile device. VR gatherings may sometimes be accessible via a web browser, but this is not guaranteed. Also note that I am not tech support and can't really guide you beyond the basics. So please have a general understanding of how most of these services work, or be ready to teach yourself and learn.

Can I join for free?

There are multiple Pay-What-You-Can monthly dues options ranging from $100 to $15 USD. Higher amounts directly support and subsidize lower amounts! Everyone can choose the preferred amount that works for their income. Please choose the best amount based on what you can comfortably afford long-term.

Wait, why should I have to pay to join?

Because The House of Eternity took time and money to build. Because it costs money to host on this secure platform. Because people give attention to what they pay for. Because charging money keeps away cheap trolls. Because even if this is my joy, this is also my job. Because labor should always be compensated. Because we live in a capitalist world and I have bills to pay. Because I invest time and energy to make the community thrive. 

But most importantly, because The House of Eternity is worth your investment.

Can I change my house dues amount?

Certainly! If you ever need to decrease your monthly gift (or hopefully increase it, lol), send me a message and I'll make the transition for you. No one is ever permanently locked in.

I'm not able to join the house, but I'd still like to support you. How can I do that?

First, thank you for still wanting to support me! I don't take it for granted, it truly means a lot.

For a one-time gift, I primarily use CashApp ($EternityPhilops). If you'd like to give more consistently, you can join my Patreon page. The patron amounts start at just $5.00 USD a month, but you can set your own amount to be as much or as little as you like. Plus you get access to Patreon content and project updates!

Ready to Join?

Choose your preferred monthly offering below!

IMPORTANT: You must answer 5 screening questions to apply for membership. When you get to the questions screen, scroll downward to access all 5 questions. If not, the "submit" button will not highlight until all questions have answers.

You will receive an email once your application is reviewed. If approved, you'll need to confirm your membership, so keep an eye on your messages!

Need more information?
Send an email to Eternity!